SELFISHNESS ++++++++++++ Selfish people hanker after everything for themselves.They damn care if others are in pain,in need or in difficulty.Being selfish they deprive themselves of a lot of joy and mirth that they could have had through sharing. Our happiness becomes sweeter if we let others be a part of it.It will be easier for us to deal with sorrow and pain if we share it with others !!

SELFISHNESS
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       Selfish people hanker after everything for themselves.They damn care if others are in pain,in need or in difficulty.Being selfish they deprive themselves of a lot of joy and mirth that they could have had through sharing.
       Our happiness becomes sweeter if we let others be a part of it.It will be easier for us to deal with sorrow and pain if we share it with others !!

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PEW IN THE FRONT ROW ****************************88**** An elderly xanthippe lady staggered into a church.The friendly usher greeted her and escorted her up the steps." Where would you prefer to be seated?" he whispered. "On a pew in the front row",she rejoined. The usher blurted," The pastor is actually quite boring and monochromatic.Better cull another pew where you can enjoy a little siesta while the pastor is delivering the sermon." The woman trilled," Do you know who I am?" "No" replied he. "I am the mother of pastor"she quipped. The usher was a tad flummoxed.He stammered," Do you know who I am?" " NO"she yowled. The usher felt relieved. He cooed," That's good."

PEW IN THE FRONT ROW
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   An elderly xanthippe lady staggered into a church.The friendly usher greeted her and escorted her up the steps." Where would you prefer to be seated?" he whispered.
"On a pew in the front row",she rejoined.
The usher blurted," The pastor is actually quite boring and monochromatic.Better cull another pew where you can enjoy a little siesta while the pastor is delivering the sermon."
The woman trilled," Do you know who I am?"
"No" replied he.
"I am the mother of pastor"she quipped.
The usher was a tad flummoxed.He stammered," Do you know who I am?"
" NO"she yowled.
The usher felt relieved. He cooed," That's good."

Be self-confident. Be courageous. Your problems are like the lion of the jungle whereas you are the humble deer. Even the deer wakes up everyday with determination to run fast and escape the killer pounce of the lion. On the other hand the lion too wakes up everyday with determination to run fast and make a kill in order to survive. Choice is yours. Do you wish to be the prey or the predator?

Be self-confident. Be courageous.
Your problems are like the lion of the jungle whereas you are the humble deer. Even the deer wakes up everyday with determination to run fast and escape the killer pounce of the lion. On the other hand the lion too wakes up everyday with determination to run fast and make a kill in order to survive. Choice is yours. Do you wish to be the prey or the predator?

I'm still repenting xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx This incident happened to me when I failed to show kindness to a needy. It was the festive season of Durga Puja.One fine morning I was peregrinating on a road enjoying the cool breeze when a poor nine years old chap accosted me,"Uncle, would you please be kind enough to buy me a shirt and pants? I would then have a new set of clothes."I snubbed him rudely and moved on. Feeling guilty, I curtailed my walk after sometime and vamoosed to the spot to look for the chap.But I could never locate him even on the following days. Years later,I still feel sorry and rue whenever I remember the incident !!

I'm still repenting
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This incident happened to me when I failed to show kindness to a needy.
  It was the festive season of Durga Puja.One fine morning I was peregrinating on a road enjoying the cool breeze when a poor nine years old chap accosted me,"Uncle, would you please be kind enough to buy me a shirt and pants? I would then have a new set of clothes."I snubbed him rudely and moved on. Feeling guilty, I curtailed my walk after sometime and vamoosed to the spot to look for the chap.But I could never locate him even on the following days.
Years later,I still feel sorry and rue whenever I remember the incident !!

REALLY AWESOME JOKE...........
Ek baar railway-station par 1 budha
aadmi baitha train ka intejaar kar
rha tha.. .
Waha Pappu aaya aur uss budhe se
pucha:
“ancle, time kya hua hai...??
Budha: “mujhe nahi pata..”
Pappu: “lekin aapke hath me ghadi
to hai.
Plz bata dijiye na kitne baje hai..?
Budha: ghanta, mai nahi bataunga..!
Pappu: “par kyu..?
Budha: “abe q ki agr mai tujhe time
bata dunga to tum mujhe thanx
bologe aur apna name bataoge..
Phir tum mera name, kaam
puchoge.
Phir shayad hum log apas me aur
bhi baat krne lage,
Hum 2no me jaan- pehchan ho
jayegi to shayad train aane par tum
bagal wali seat par baitho. Fir
shayad tum bhi usi staion par utro
jaha mujhe utarna hai.
Waha meri beti, jo bahut
khoobsurathai, mujhe lene station
aayegi. Tum mere saath hi hoge to
pakka tum use dekhoge..
wo bhi tumko dekhegi shayad tum
2no ek dusre ko dil de baitho aur
shadi krne ki jid krne lago.
Isliye bhai, mujhe maaf karo.!
Mujhe aisa kangaal damad nahi
chahiye jiske paas time dekhne ke
liye apni ghadi tak nhi hai...

GOD'S WILL ****** ************ Once a poor guy by saving some money, was able to cop cloth for shirt. Feeling elated he went to a tailor's shop. The tailor after taking due measurements, uttered," Please come back after a weak and if God wills, your shirt will be ready. After a weak when the guy went back to the shop, the tailor uttered," There has been some unavoidable delay but if God wills, your sh irt will be basted by tomorrow. The following day the guy returned to thebh shop.The tailor politely said," I an extremely sorry.Your shirt is not quite finished. Try tomorrow and if God wills, it will be ready." Absolutely teed off, the guy trilled," How long will it take to be readied if you leave God out of it?"